well i have this friend, shes only 14 and she has a new boyfriend (16, name: matt). she broke up with her boyfriend because he did drugs. well they got back together like 4 days later with the promise that he would quit doing the drugs. good thing? no because the promise was broken and now hes got her hooked on doing drugs. here is part of my conversation with her:
musicadd1ct (5:16:42 PM): no because i never promised that and im not sure if i want to
ecstasycode (5:17:10 PM): you promised me long ago, but why did you even start. remember you even broke up with him in the first place because of that
musicadd1ct (5:17:41 PM): i dont remember promising anyone i wouldnt
musicadd1ct (5:17:44 PM): and i know what i did
ecstasycode (5:17:52 PM): i know you did but why do it?
ecstasycode (5:17:58 PM): that stuff can and will kill you
musicadd1ct (5:18:25 PM): ok
ecstasycode (5:18:35 PM): and thats all you have to say is okay?
ecstasycode (5:18:43 PM): kinda of sad since you are a smart person
musicadd1ct (5:18:55 PM): yea. thanks for your concern.
ecstasycode (5:19:08 PM): whats happening to you?
musicadd1ct (5:19:14 PM): nothing
ecstasycode (5:19:15 PM): i swear you changed to much
ecstasycode (5:19:25 PM): nothing my ass, things changed
musicadd1ct (5:19:44 PM): okay well if they did then they did
ecstasycode (5:20:01 PM): but why for something so degrading for human life?
musicadd1ct (5:20:42 PM): its onyl degrading if you make it degrading.
ecstasycode (5:21:29 PM): see and when i met you, you had such a strong head on you shoulder and knew what you were doing with life. besides its illegal
ecstasycode (5:23:42 PM): i'll take that moment of silence to leave. byebye
from the looks of it, it seems like she doesnt care but knows i care. but doesnt really care all that much. what should i do? they are really luck i moved back to north jersey this month because i know for a fact if i was still there nothing like this would have happened.
she use to be so fun to talk to now it dropped down to seriousness. deeply disturbed and upset. /sad.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":(" border="0" alt="sad.gif" />
ps. do not msg her.
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Eeee... I wish I had some advice for that sort of thing. I can't even properly describe what I feel about this.
"You sharpen the human appetite to the point where it can split atoms with its desire; you build egos the size of cathedrals; fiber-optically connect the world to every eager impulse; grease even the dullest dreams with these dollar-green, gold-plated fantasies, until every human becomes an aspiring emperor, becomes his own God... and where can you go from there?" "And as we're straddling from one deal to the next, who's got his eye on the planet, as the air thickens, the water sours, and even the bees' honey takes on the metallic taste of radioactivity? And it just keeps coming, faster and faster. There's no chance to think, to prepare; it's buy futures, sell futures, when there is no future." - John Milton
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she was taking my advice and throwing it away because she doesnt care.
should have seen the first half of the im which i ex'ed out of since i was getting pissed. shes like ok, fine, yah, fine okay. k.
when i met her the first time her father didnt like me because im way to old to be hanging out with people that young, lol. well me and him had a nice talk and he admitted to being way "over protective" of her. well, dad, your daughter is doing sh*t right under your nose and you dont even know about it. talk about protection.
should have seen the first half of the im which i ex'ed out of since i was getting pissed. shes like ok, fine, yah, fine okay. k.
when i met her the first time her father didnt like me because im way to old to be hanging out with people that young, lol. well me and him had a nice talk and he admitted to being way "over protective" of her. well, dad, your daughter is doing sh*t right under your nose and you dont even know about it. talk about protection.
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I meant advice for you. I could tell her mind was pretty much made up to not listen from the parts of the conversation I read. Well, you could turn her in, if you really feel there's little choice left. If not, I'd suggest that you do whatever you need to in person, because people tend to blow off conversations through the internet.
"You sharpen the human appetite to the point where it can split atoms with its desire; you build egos the size of cathedrals; fiber-optically connect the world to every eager impulse; grease even the dullest dreams with these dollar-green, gold-plated fantasies, until every human becomes an aspiring emperor, becomes his own God... and where can you go from there?" "And as we're straddling from one deal to the next, who's got his eye on the planet, as the air thickens, the water sours, and even the bees' honey takes on the metallic taste of radioactivity? And it just keeps coming, faster and faster. There's no chance to think, to prepare; it's buy futures, sell futures, when there is no future." - John Milton
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Those people aren't thinking things through. If we were talking about someone 18 years old or so, then maybe it's they're choice, even if it's a wrong one. This person isn't old enough to be making that kind of decision.
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yup, shes never had any luck with guys. i would of offerened to go out with her if i wasnt so old /tongue.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":P" border="0" alt="tongue.gif" /> but seriously she had one love he moved, she was heart broken. this was like 2 years ago or so. now, shes got this guy and she thinks shes inlove with him again. i only know this since she would talk to me all the time about it. now, she doesnt.
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