a friends new problem. me.

Shadowfox · Post by **Shadowfox** » 23 May 2004, 03:36

Here is the thing, ask yourself "why she is doing this?"
When you find this out you will have the answer on where the problem lies.

If you have seen Tv lately you will have seen the comercials that talk about confronting your friends with their drug habits. Some hard hitting comercials but very true. You have made the first step in confronting your friend, if you really care about this person then you will forget about any promises you made reguarding telling people what she is doing. If talking to her does not work, then I would go a step higher, I would talk to her parents, she might hate you for it but it will save her life in the end. You may not want to do it because she hates you for it but I would find some way another person, another friend, her parents, someone that can help you to help her. Their are some things you cant do on your own, that you dont have to do on your own, and if you are as good a friend as you say you are then get the help that your friend needs. Forget what they say to you, their words mean nothing because they are angry and when people get angry they say things they dont mean. And in the end they see that you turly care about them and are willing to help them out by doing whatever you have to to get them safe.

This goes for everyone. If you truly are a friend then you will go out of your way to help a person in trouble even if that means going to a higher authority.

samfan · Post by **samfan** » 23 May 2004, 17:59

tRaptor wrote:I've said it before and I'll say it again. All women are crazy. And thinking they are in "love" just makes them more crazy

*ahem* maybe the women you've met... /tongue.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":P" border="0" alt="tongue.gif" />

But for this situation it is very sad to see someone that young head in the wrong direction. At 14, it is easy to be influenced whether good or bad sometimes... hopefully she'll realize what she is doing.

Chiara · Post by **Chiara** » 23 May 2004, 19:16

Samfan wrote:But for this situation it is very sad to see someone that young head in the wrong direction. At 14, it is easy to be influenced whether good or bad sometimes... hopefully she'll realize what she is doing.

I hope so too....!

I mean the age 14 is like a killer...can't wait for blasting 15 or 18
but it's so common for 14 yr olds to start drugs =\
since it's when you start highschool--it's when my ex started to and screw everything up but I never did them took me forever to break up with him and to get over it--all you can do is show her that you care and keep making her see it eventually and hopefully she'll realize it, think about, and make a damn better decision over life-death

takes time..I needed/did (to) keep reminding my friends at school and the one finally stopped /biggrin.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":D" border="0" alt="biggrin.gif" />

Kirby · Post by **Kirby** » 31 May 2004, 17:57

Dude, if she doesn't care then you cant do much. some people ........ up their lives like that, and when they dont want help, theres no point busting your ass trying to get them off them
She has to want to get off the drugs

i did drugs for awhile. i got some friends who are way too hooked at the moment tho, and i know it might anger me and other people who have friends who do drugs, but you cant do sh*t until they want your help

sorry for the megativity B