YAGT: I'm in trouble

tRaptor · Post by **tRaptor** » 24 Dec 2004, 22:29

In case you dont know, YAGT = Yet Another Girl Thread /smile.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":)" border="0" alt="smile.gif" />

To make a long story short, I'm in trouble.

Three weeks in a row I have let my girlfriend down.

Week 1 she calls me for some reason.
Week 2 She calls me depressed about finals
Week 3 She calls with a broken arm, scared to go into sugery (sp?)

all three weeks I wasent there.

The 3rd week she was gone snowboarding, and i didnt get to talk to her till her 4th call.

Now the problem is that I dont really think that I have done anything wrong. Every time that she called I was either A. At work, B. In class/Final Test.

All times I tried to call her back ASAP.

I just got off the phone, and she was very upset with me, even crying.

Is there anything I can to do to reassure her, or make her feel better? Int not that i didnt want to be there for her, its just she calls at such bad times (simply put, times when i am not there)

pinksapphire · Post by **pinksapphire** » 25 Dec 2004, 00:13

Write her a good old fashion letter telling her how you feel. Putting words on paper is better than anything else and it shows effort. Reassure her that you couldn't talk for certain reasons...not because you didn't want to. There's my hint of advice...hope that helps you out some. Have a wonderful Christmas!

-Amanda

NYGfan25 · Post by **NYGfan25** » 25 Dec 2004, 03:17

if you were honestly unable to answer the phone and tried to call her back ASAP she has no reason to be mad at you. Shes probably just stressed. Tell her why you werent there and just talk it out. If shes mad at you for having a job and taking finals then she is being rediculous.

Chaotic_Baryonyx · Post by **Chaotic_Baryonyx** » 02 Jan 2005, 10:07

pinksapphire wrote:Write her a good old fashion letter telling her how you feel. Putting words on paper is better than anything else and it shows effort. Reassure her that you couldn't talk for certain reasons...not because you didn't want to. There's my hint of advice...hope that helps you out some. Have a wonderful Christmas!

-Amanda

I'd say tell her what you write.

Most girls tell me doing things in person is a lot more impressive.

Tyrannosaur · Post by **Tyrannosaur** » 03 Jan 2005, 01:29

I don't think she's mad at you as so much as just you weren't there for her when she needed someone to talk to. It's not your fault mind you and I think it would benefit you more if you sat down and talk with her about how you couldn't be there for her. I'd also treat her to a nice evening out and spend time with her to show she still matters and is an essential part to your life. Plus, if you two are on a physically intimate level I would suggest pleasing her in that area as well.

Don't know what other advice I could give, but I hope I helped you.